Too many young girls don’t know how to act when someone’s being inappropriate with them. They giggle or they try to brush it off. Don’t do that. Tell them to go fuck themselves - be a bitch. If someone’s being disrespectful to you, be disrespectful right back. Show them the same amount of respect that they show you.
Wise words from my mom (via moaka)
There are a bunch of studies out there showing how girls are socialized to be agreeable and conciliatory, even if to their detriment. It’s remarkable how behaviour interpreted as positive signs of assertiveness and self-confidence in boys is often presented as “bitchy” or “self-centred” when in girls.
a plus-side to being my friend is that you can come to my house in your pajamas and i will not judge you because i will also be in my pajamas